Aaah, being young is so, so precious. The springboard to a lifetime of experiences: love, hurt, rejection, elation, the highs, the lows. A young friend of mine recently lamented how she wished she was already in her 30s. Being 20s is hard, she said, finding love is hard, striking out on her own is hard.
I decided to share with her a quote I’d read recently. How I wish I had come across this when I was in my 20s and spent less time counting scores and wallowing in self-pity.
“Time is absolutely marvelous. We get to anticipate the experiences we want to have — which is often more enjoyable than the experiences themselves.” – Benjamin P. Hardy
I was nonchalant about this drama when it first aired even when there was so much hype around it. My mom was watching it over the summer of 2016 and she was hooked. I finally picked it up over the winter break when I had plenty of free time to kill.
A slice of life drama about five women of different backgrounds and age group but ultimately it is about the friendships, girl-power and sorority which won me over.
I don’t remember the last time I cried this much over make-belief, fairy-tale characters and story-telling. Over the years of drama watching, there were many, many moments where my heart fluttered, my voice cracked and the tears threatened but rarely over and over, and over again.
And yet, Loving, Never Forgetting managed to do just that.
It’s hard to imagine I’d managed to avoid the cdrama bug until now. Though I speak Mandarin and Cantonese, albeit in broken form, I’d had very little interest in cdramas. Superior perhaps for its wuxia or historicals, where action packed fighting sequences reign supreme, but alas, its contemporary counterparts felt cheesy and overly dramatic. Or so I thought.
Until… the day my twin came across a cdrama that caught her eye while flipping through channels after a tiring day scouring the sights of Beijing. Except for Boss and Me where the swoon-worthy Darcy-like Feng Teng held my interest, I had stayed away. But when Park Hae Jin gleamed across the small screen looking dreamy and ever so handsome, that was enough to make me sit up and pay attention.
“That’s the Korean dude from My Love From Another Star!” I exclaimed from my sitting position on the bed. A quick yahoo search later confirmed that yes, this was Park Hae Jin in his cdrama Far Away Love which was filmed in 2013 but aired in 2016.
So here begins the birth of my sustained interest in cdramas.
Perhaps, cdramas are slowly emerging as a legit contender in the saturated Asian drama world. Wouldn’t be surprised if the Korean drama craze in China is forcing the Mainland studios to step up their game and copy the same successful formulae that won drooling fans all over China and overseas.
So, here’s a brief look at the three cdramas I completed in recent months.